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Dear BCUK, I Am Distinctly Unimpressed...

by Juzzzy @ Wednesday, Jul. 04, 2007 - 11:19:32 am

July 4, 2007

Now, I'm old enough and ugly enough to take a few hits.

But that's not necessarily the case for others.

Old Daggers (remember him?) and I just went and fetched some scalding coffees for the team - because we're nice like that - and, on the way, discussed the implications of what might - and for all I know it may well have happened - last night.

Imagine, say, you're living in a country away from your family and your blog is a way they can stay in touch. Then you get ill. Really ill. You don't want to worry them but you do want to talk about it. You write a private post. It's your chance to search your own feelings and discuss it.

And then your mother rings to ask why you haven't told her about the cancer.

Your relationship is faltering - and there's been quite a few here, and not all them mine, either - and so, again, in private posts you talk it through, take or ignore the advice given, and ultimately make whatever decision it is you're going to make.

And then comes the phone call from your other half asking why the fuck you're discussing this with others.

I'm thinking of some of the people I have the most regular discourse with on here.

Pretty much all of us at one time or another has had something private to say that we didn't want everyone to see, whether it was because you simply didn't think it was other people's business, that you didn't want to hurt someone, or that you just wanted a sounding board from people you'd become to trust.

And then BCUK accidentally slips the bolts on the stable doors and slaps the horses on the arse.

It may well have been a software glitch, but it's a bloody disgraceful glitch and a complete breach of trust, programming bug or not.

I've read a few comments from people, like Paddy, saying an apology's enough.

I'm not so sure that it is, frankly.

Your thoughts?

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Irish-Le-FeauxIrish-Le-Feaux [Member]
04/07/07 @ 11:26

Crap happens. Mistakes can be made, systems can fail. If more than an apology what?

If you take the risk of putting things on here you don't want people to read then there is always the possibility that they will be accessible.

Do you know all the 117 people that you have as friends?

You are right. These things shouldn't happen but - crap does happen.

I have to disagree.

To me, the idea of a private post is just that - just as I wouldn't be too happy if Google decided that you didn't need a password into my email account.

I accept crap happens, but this is serious crap and could have implications.

I think I might move.

Irish-Le-FeauxIrish-Le-Feaux [Member]
04/07/07 @ 16:58

Hope the site you go to doesnt get glitches then mate.

bloglikesitbloglikesit [Member]
04/07/07 @ 11:44

I know where you're coming from, and I agree. But about the 117 friends - a private post can be for just one friend to see, you choose who can see it, not everyone has to.

I know Brad - and I've done that several times, although you've been in on them.

And therein lies the problem.

My dirty laundry I can cope with. It's the other "stuff".

bloglikesitbloglikesit [Member]
04/07/07 @ 12:12

(I was telling Irish!)

Irish-Le-FeauxIrish-Le-Feaux [Member]
04/07/07 @ 15:30

I didnt know that bloglikesit. I thought it went to friends (total). Ah well you live and learn. Still think it is a bit iffy on an open site though.

Irish-Le-FeauxIrish-Le-Feaux [Member]
04/07/07 @ 16:55

Aha I wasnt aware you could do that bloglikesit. You live and learn. Still think it is dodgy to post stuff on an open site that you don't want some people to see though.

I spose it's a tricky one, a line of code breaks, a new function decides to conflict with an old one.

If an apology is seen as not enough, what is enough? As with all technical things quite often all you can do is say "sorry, the computers messed up". It's not anyone's fault and was at least fixed quickly.

If you don't mind me saying BCUK didn't exactly slap the horses on the arse, to keep the analogy as soon as they saw the problem they came and slammed the door shut.

The problem, to be honest, in my mind became exacerbated when wherever you looked people were posting about the problem and advertising it was there, I think other bloggers slapped the horses on the arse and even could have opened the gates wider.

Don't get me wrong, I understand it was a huge glitch which may have caused difficulties for people, but as to how complicit the blog-owners are in a wider breach of trust thing is arguable when it wasn't a deliberate action on their part.

Yours,

The Suddenly Unliked One

You're not The Suddenly Unliked One - I asked for "your thoughts" and that's what I'm getting.

On a personal level - believe it or not - I couldn't give a shit about people reading about my relationship shenanigans, on the grounds that there is far more personal stuff here that I chose very carefully who could read it.

That's why I think, after the blogathon anyway, that I'm off.

Before you go, have a think and know what I'm saying is, I'm pretty sure, in knowledge of the things you're talking about people reading.

Firstly, remember it was only blogworld who could read them, the security against external visitors was still in place, not to say there aren't a number of unscrupulous people on this site, just making the point it wasn't accessible to the far larger collection of unscrupulous people OFF site.

Secondly, how many people would have read those posts? Largely it was hit and miss whether people were logged in and had a search around.

If I may say, if you leave here what you leave is a bunch of people who know your demons, as you know theirs, and really do give a damn about you.

It's not to say we wouldn't visit you on another site but *shrug* you know what the world is like and how people keep in touch.

How many people would have read those posts and what impact could those people have on your life? In the end is it worth it to leave?

There's already impact.

LandersUKLandersUK pro
04/07/07 @ 11:44

Yes, this morning when I read your comment I thought it probably wasn't the best thing to do!

LandersUKLandersUK pro
04/07/07 @ 11:38

I only think an apology is enough because I can't think of anything else they can do. It would be nice to think there was some form of compensation available, and I don't just mean in monetary terms, but there isn't or won't be... I don't think.

See, I feel like a bit of twat for announcing it so royally, as AJ pointed out, probably wasn't the best move and to start with I thought 'well yes, so maybe BCUK should have emailed us all to tell us so we could have gone in a deleted things' but that would have been the same as what I did.

Before I commented on AJ's blog that an apology was enough I did think 'well what else should they do' but of all the options I came up with it still kept coming back to the fact that they can't afford to do any of them or don't have them time.

They could give EVERYONE Pro accounts but look at how many blogs are spam or have two or three entries on them. They could give everyone a free month but the logistics of that are immense.

I appreciate the harm it could have/will have caused but I honestly can't see anything else they could do other than apologise. I do think maybe an apology on the main screen would have been better as not everyone looks at the developer blog.

At the end of the day accidents happen, it was unfortunate, but it's too late to do anything about it.

...all of which I absolutely accept.

I'm just horrified that certain posts about a certain time in my life a few years - and you know what I'm talking about - were suddenly out there for anyone looking in.

LandersUKLandersUK pro
04/07/07 @ 11:51

Absolutely! It's horrific to think things like that were opened up to quite literally anyone and I wouldn't blame anyone who decided to leave BCUK because of it.

It's all about trust, something that can be built up quite quickly the first time, but then once it's been trampled on it's take so much longer to gain it back.

When I first realised I had access to other peoples friends only post I stopped reading. I know some people won't believe that but that doesn't bother, I know it's true and that's all that matter, but there are some people who would have carried on reading and it did piss me off.

Just out of interest, and I'm not belittling your feelings or trying to insult or make you stay if you want to go, but what could BCUK do to make you happy? As I said, I'm not trying to insult you, I'm just interested because personally I don't see there being anything. I've already got another blog which after last nights little episode I'll know use to post "friends only" entries. There is nothing they can do here to make me feel any better about it but I don't want to leave as I love the community feel I get from this blog compared to others, but I don't trust them with my private friends only thoughts anymore.

The blog owner changed this comment on 04/07/07 12:09

Should I add the "not" in on the sentence "As I said, I'm trying to insult you"?

:)

I said to someone earlier: I feel like my phone's been tapped.

LandersUKLandersUK pro
04/07/07 @ 12:00

GODDAMNMYFINGERS!!!!!!

Yes, would you add it please before someone decides to take offence and write a blog entry about it and every other blog that happens to show an opinion and/or mistake!

Yes... phone tapping... excellent analogy

You have made some interesting points. People's private thoughts and feelings are just as important as bank account details - a site that allows private information to be displayed needs to take that into account.

As I have said on another post, I think the site's administrators should have taken the site down as soon as they got wind of something like this happening. I don't think anyone would have complained.

Just my thoughts,
Hektor

Excellent point - let's face it, it wouldn't be the first time "blogs are sleeping".

bloglikesitbloglikesit [Member]
04/07/07 @ 12:05

I personally do not post anything on here that I don't want people to read. What is the point, otherwise? I have exactly one post on here that was private and that was about Paddy's birthday when I asked for help finding something. So no biggy for me. I have been carefull-ish not to let friends and family in the real world know about it, so it's unlikely that they will read - and I don't often slag them off anyway!

But I appreciate that some people do want some stuff kept private, your blog is notorious, and I know people at your work read it, and I can only imagine suddenly having everything laid bare. Potentially disastrous, as you pointed out. The thing is, nothing is infallible. I can imagine Google search accidentally being able to search people's Google emails all too easily! A properly motivated person would probably be able to access your email anyway! Such is the world we live in. If you are really so worried, go back to sending letters through the post! (but the postman could intercept them...)

This blog site is better than any other I have played with, and personally I wouldn't give up on it because an "improvement" had an unexpected side-effect, which was remedied as soon as possible. As Paddy sais, an appypollylogie on the main page would have been good, but there you go.

Perhaps rather than "move", you could create a secret second blog, like so many people seem to do, and just invite those friends you choose to show private posts to. Needs no mention of the Jizzzmeister brand, so a search wouldn't find it, just remember to reply to comments from the right account!

morelearningmorelearning [Member]
04/07/07 @ 12:07

Is it fixed?
I'm about to delete EVERYONE from my friends list, so let me know soonest please.

Apparently it is fixed, yeah.

Why the deletion?

Sorry - I had my Dickhead Hat on there.

SiennaSienna [Member]
04/07/07 @ 16:51

Apparently everyone saw everything, friends or not- so deleting ppl won't help. It's been fixed, but WHAT A NIGHTMARE! http://bugblog.blog.de/2007/07/03/urgent~2567571?disp_scomments=1&comment_level=1&comment_ID=3968512

And don't I know it x

lyndljlyndlj pro
04/07/07 @ 12:17

As I have said on several blogs I dont do friends only posts, but respect those that do.

As everyone else has said a glich is just that a Glich, BCUK were darn quick in fixing it too, would other sites have been that quick?

The many messages going round about it probably peeked more peoples interest than the actual event did to be honest, and there were probably more friends only posts read because of it.

Leaving may seem like the answer right now, because you are angry. But to be homest this could have happened on any site, and this one so far had been the friendliest and most communal I have found.

Your decision of course, just calm down first.

Those situations you spoke of in yer post - jeez! I was thinking about all those too. One of my friends was being stalked and I worried about the stalker having access to their info :-/ and a few other bloggers situations which would be too obvious to say here.

I don't think there's anything they can do to compensate. They came back to work to fix it when they got the freaked-out emails at home. It really was a major fuck-up but it wasn't deliberate and I don't think it was down to crappy writing skills either. It just happens to have been a mash-up in a very dodgy area. Mibbe not enough testing, since security is all?

Please don't leave the site, J x

Old-NickOld-Nick pro
04/07/07 @ 12:36

I found everything said above interestinng and relevant.

I am not sure sorry is enough, but what else can they do?

they have to make sure it does not happen again though.

I think Hektor put it best - there should be a safety mechanism where the servers are shut down.

It can't be impossible to make them "sleep", can it?

sallyontoursallyontour pro
04/07/07 @ 12:50

Was there negligence? Does the e-contract specify a duty of care in respect of private posts, or is there an implied duty of care? Was the problem reasonably foreseeable? What are the actual losses sustained by those who have private posts (and that includes me), and are they quantifiable?

It's a long time since I was in the business, but I don't reckon there's a claim under tort of negligence in English law, even provided the membership e-contract falls under UK jurisdiction (and I didn't check, did you?).

Accidents will happen.

An apology would be nice though!

deleted user [Visitor]

04/07/07 @ 12:53

Well I know of at least one blogger for whom the consequences have been plenty serious - and the whole point of a Friends Only post is that you can keep it private. If you have a malicious stalker who then e:mails private posts to someone else - sheesh!

Which is what I meant by my post.

It is bloody shit, isn't it?

deleted user [Visitor]

04/07/07 @ 12:57

im just i deleted all my stuff i didnt want prying eyes to see the other week

*phew wipes sweat from brow*

ps

dont leave :(

[Visitor]

04/07/07 @ 12:58

Some kind of apology would be good, but not so sure what else they could do. They can't take back what, if anything, people have seen.

Don't leave the site though. This could easily have happened on another site. Technology's technology after all. :)

The artist formerly known as Nixie [Visitor]

04/07/07 @ 13:21

Here's my tu'pence for what it's worth.

In this day and age there are many ways to communicate.

Everyone uses their online journals for anything they want which is absolutely the way it should be, all good, live and let live, etc etc.

One use for this site seems to be as a little online communal support group. Now there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. I've dipped in to it from time to time myself and I love some of you very much. BUT essentially you are publishing some incrediably deep and personal things on an INTERNET BASED FORUM where you must surely accept that this type of thing might happen! Especially when the site is still (STILL!) Beta testing.

If you don't want the entire world to know about how much you really don't like your wife, kids or anything else (that in all honesty perhaps you should be discussing with either a professional or those people who you actually, you know, live with) then get the email addresses of people you want to share with and email them, organise meeting up for coffee or pick up the phone... SURELY?

If you publish things on a website which you don't want other people to read, private post or otherwise, you have to take some responsibility for the medium in which YOU choose to share that info. All blog.co.uk can and should be responsible for is fixing the problem asap, which they did.

And in other thoughts, I completely agree with AJ that you all just made it a million times worse by posting about it increasing attention. Jesus, everyone in MY office knows what happened and no one even blogs here. If you'd all communicated via a different medium we would never have noticed.

So guys, take a bit of responsibility perhaps?

FancyLondonLass [Visitor]

04/07/07 @ 14:20

What Nixie said.

I could say more - oh, much more - and put the cat amongst the pigeons, but the rending and biting and blood and flying feathers might offend those of a sensitive disposition.

Point taken - from both of you.

But I didn't know a bloody thing about it until this morning.

In other news, "hi" to both.

x

bloglikesitbloglikesit [Member]
04/07/07 @ 17:43

She's talking to you in that last paragraph, Paddy.

Hi Nixie! *waving*

Come baaaaaack with your box of froggyness.

deleted user [Visitor]

04/07/07 @ 16:42

software is software and it sometimes goes wrong (heaven knows, I've made some garganutan programming fuck ups in my time) when you least want it to.

This place is connected to the the internet. a billion people a day could drop by. I think its easy to forget the goldfish bowl this place really is..so maybe its worth remembering this before writing down every little detail...

paulboydpaulboyd [Member]
http://www.pbmusicals.com
05/07/07 @ 07:21

I missed the action too, Juzzzy, but caught on to it while the situation was still in full swing, so I went and 'drafted' all of my friends-only posts just to be sure. I still have the posts, but they aren't online anymore.

I have to say, I am fortunate in the fact that all of my friends-only posts (which, you may recall, were private and personal) were over a year old and written at a very troubled and lonely period in my life when my blog friends really were the only ones I could vent to. I doubt if yesterday anyone took the time to read back that far in the hope of finding something personal on my blog, but that's not really the point - the fact is they could have done if they'd wanted to.

Like a fool I keep my blog titled with my own name, a remnant from its original purpose of charting my travels for the benfit of those at home. The repercussion is, of course, that my blog is easily identifiable, and there is no doubt who wrote it. I've thought of changing it a few times in the past, but that's not as easy as it sounds and would mean losing months and months of posts in the process. My blog even turns up on Google if people are searching for information on me and my work, and I know that you and I share the situation of having colleagues from the real world read our blogs. I recall last year, for example, when the mother of one the kids from my summer training programme left a comment saying how much her child had enjoyed the week - a lovely sentiment, and nice to hear, but why the hell did she leave it on my blog of all places? My company has a web site of its own, and my blog was never mentioned in front of the kids!

Anyway, the point I am making is that friends-only posts are an obvious solution to this problem for me - I can retain a public blog and still talk candidly to you lot if I need to. But I now know that the friends-only post feature is unreliable - I certainly wouldn't trust it now, particularly if I wanted to share something personal with my good blog friends that I didn't want the general blogging community to know about. Others have commented here that by writing in a public forum we must take responsibility for the chance that our words might be read by those other than the intended - I disagree. It's Blog.co's responsibility to keep my private posts private because they offered me this facility in the first place. If Blog.co simply offered a public forum then, yes - the responsibilty for what I write would be my own. But if Blog.co offers a friends-only facility, they have to stand by it, and the responsibility for it is theirs. My trust is placed with them.

Others have also commented here that bloggers themselves exacerbated the problem by mentioning it online. Again, I disagree. If Paddy, for example, hadn't brought the matter to my attention, I still wouldn't know anything about. I say thank you to Paddy. I'm glad I wasn't waiting for Blog.co to tell me about it - as it was they weren't quick enough to close the site down and they weren't smart enough to make sure it didn't happen in the first place. They still haven't even apologised as far as I am concerned. I'm sorry, but posting an apology on a web site that you have to follow a link to from the Help page is not sufficient. Apologise in big letters on the home page of the site that fucked up in the first place, and in front of those whose trust you need to win back. Fuck that, e-mail us all personal apologies. When will they realise that they have to make ammends to regain trust, and do something proactive to re-establish a relationship with their clients? What they've done so far is tantamount to a child apologising very quietly with its head bowed in the hope that it doesn't have to sound sincere.

I do happen to believe that an apology is sufficient, if for the only reason that there's nothing else they can do, but I don't think that an apology has even come close to being made yet. And I don't think it's every blogger's own fault for blogging in the first place. Blog.co offered us the friends-only service, and it fucked up. They either need to fix it once and for all and guarantee it as a function, or get rid of it.

And they need to apologise here, in front of all of us.

I'm not going anywhere - I like it here and I like my friends here. I'm not sure I could trust anywhere else any more than I can trust this place. 'Better the devil you know' as they say. I don't think you should go either (or to put it another way, I don't want you to go) but you're right to feel cross and we are right to expect an apology. 'Codes clashing and updates conflicting' means nothing to me, all I know is that however difficult running this site is, they made the mistake. So let them apologise, let us accept the apology and their assurances for the future, and then let us all move on, together.

That can really only happen, though, if they apologise to begin with.

Rant over.

X

vascovasco team
http://sommer.blog.de
05/07/07 @ 16:28

Among the apologies that we as a team owe members of BCUK, please allow me to first apologise for the rather late comment
(we will apologise directly to members of BCUK via email later today and tomorrow).

Among all things, we rushed to fix the bug first.
The private posts were available to other members logged in at that point in time (note: they were not public in the general sense and were therefore not indexed by search engines). We did fix the bug within a few hours, identified the source of the problem and got rid of it.

It´s hard to express how the team felt after everything was put back into place - we were quite shattered to say the least. Needless to say, having private posts available to strangers is a very serious issue and one which cannot be compensated for. We completely agree that this is not "some programming glitch". It did erase a lot of trust. And it is up to us to prove that we have learned from this and it is up to us to win back the trust you´ve put in us.

We cannot undo this mistake. We can only promise to try our utmost to improve and not allow things like this to happen again. As a matter of fact, we are already increasing test times, test-teams, as well as support staff.

We deeply apologise for this incident and thank everybody for their participation regarding this matter, be it supportive or critical.

You can be assured that this matter did have a very strong impact on all of us and we will do our very best to improve.

paulboydpaulboyd [Member]
http://www.pbmusicals.com
05/07/07 @ 20:57

Thank you, Vasco.

The apology is very much appreciated and I hope we can all put the incident behind us now.

You're a gentleman.

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