Aw, J. I want to make you feel better, but I know I can't. You've been a good friend.

You reacted to all the frickin past month's frustrations. It wasn't gonna be an ideal night now was it? That emotion-packed dinner was an accident waiting to happen. Bad timing. That was the mistake, but it's all very well saying that with hindsight. Just don't be too hard on yourself Juz. x

Oh hun...

I don't know what to say. It sounds truely awful.

Enjoy some time off to yourself and hopefully we'll see you back soon.

*HUGS*

xxx

Awww, Juz.

Take care. We'll see you back here when you're ready xx

what are you like ya div

dont give up on her yet juzz prove you can change for her
she sounds like she's worth giveing the drink up for

*she came back* i think she loves you a lot to

ouch i felt that fall hope your ok mate
x

thinking of ya

'Kin' 'ell. What a whack. You know you need to post a photo, its part of the cathartic process.

Don't write her off yet. Better to ditch the drinking and show her you're trying than throw it all away through shame-faced avoidance tactics. Totally understandable, but don't cut off your broken nose to spite your swollen face.

I think you maybe need a hug and a warm duvet rather than advice but...

...maybe try turning your phone on sooner rather than later.People may be worried about you and it'll just get worse if you leave them hanging on. They won't like you hiding from them.

I don't know what else to say. It's easy to enjoy stories about how hilariously unlucky some people's lives are but I don't find anything entertaining about this.It's just really worrying. It sounds like you have had a wake up call and I hope you use your friends (on blog land as well as off) to get through it and start sorting yourself out.

I don't know about Kay. I'd be furious and embaressed if I was her and I think an unsolicited apology would be the decent thing to do rather than a way to see if you can win her affections back.

Take care xxx

jesus christ Juz.
you really do create some adventures for yourself don't you?
speak to you later
xoxo

An apology would be a good start. It's the only start, and it's only a start. What I mean is, don't give up, you've nothing to lose now.
So, she's seen you at your worst. Can you believe you can claw your way back into her affections? If you can, then you have a chance.

Things that sound corny are usually true, and it's true that she won't start to believe in you till you believe in yourself.

Come on J, there's a load of friends here wishing you well. We're hoping you can crawl out of this mess and build something good and strong out of the debris that you've created. It's not beyond you, just reach out and you will find support. I think that's how Madam Universe catches her fans, by giving them a leg up when they least expect it.

Get some Arnica for the bruising, it'll heal quicker, and Aloe Vera for the cuts.

You know the first step though, don't you? It'll be hard but not impossible. The second step is to apologise, and if you've taken the first step, then the apology may be accepted.

Hugs, gently now, from your friend in the west.

ax

Oh well, mate.

As long as you managed to avoid making a c*nt of yourself - that's the main thing.

FUCKING HELL!!!!!!!!!

Sweet baby Jesus.

And you thought drinking that much was a good idea, whyyyyy.....?!!

I really hope your bruises and such heals soon, I really do. As for your broken heart? It's gonna be a while Zeds xxx

Turn your phone on. Bloody do it.

i wish you'd gone for the stitches but never mind. we've all made an ass of ourselves Juzzy. we all think it's the end of the world and our loved ones will never love us again. most of the time, it's not as bad as it seems from our perspective. Avrilo is right. apologise, for being an ass on the day. forgive yourself and chill and dust yourself off. It's easy for me to preach i know, but you are only human and sometimes shit happens. you#ll get thru it. you've got thru stuff before.

Now she knows you aren't Mr perfect and she might actually appreciate having seen you at ur worst. let urself heal emotionally and physically. you have a lot of support here.xx

My heart goes out to you. I know that walk of shame so well. In a few days you will feel better and stronger, as well as see things clearer. Don't be hard on yourself, we all fuck up some with more style than others. At least you are not boring.
A big hug xx

hey mate just heard the news...wow...

we've all made a cunt of ourselves through beer and if she's the one she'll forgive you...

Hope you heal well both inside and out. It's the remembering all the stupid things you said and did that gets me when I'm sober after the event.....

as my motto goes (2 part)

Time heals everything

and if that fails FUCK 'EM at least you were hardcore enough to get mashed

J,

Oh hun. Just fell back into blog land after some personal issues. No advice here ( its all been said ), No funny one liners ( not good at 'em ). Just me and my heart that aches for ya.

Abi xx

I recall a night 'out' at a friends house some time ago. Evening went swimmingly untill that final bottle of wine.

I recall being sick in the home owners bathroom.

Everywhere.

I then proceeded to clean it up and disguise the better part of me trhat had been previously sprayed throughout the walls and matching furnishing within the upstairs lav.

After this I staggerd downstairs insulting every and any person stood in my wake.

Even though they were apaprently asking me how I was.

Penultimately, I phoend for a taxi - but in my fucked state phoned my Mothers number. I then outlined I needed a lift as I was shit faced and ended the conversation by puking down the phone.

Deciding it was prudent to head back to the upstairs wc I sprayed all the recently carpeted stairs with my projectile vomitting and puked all over the bathroon - just for old times sake.

Then the memory ends.

Apparently - things got much worse - but fortunately enough the wine induced shutters blocked the rest from me recollections.

Outcome: Made a complete dogs twat of myself.

Eventually switched phone on much much later the next day - to recieve a torrent of abuse.

All of it deserved.

But they forgave me in time.

I never forgave me sen of course.

No matter what others think about us - its never as bad as the way you feel about yourself.

Is there amy chance that you'll 'upgrade' your pinkish mug shot to a more contemporary one featuring black eye and embedded specs? Just a thought...

Bugger! Hadn't seen the image you have posted. You do look a trifle rough, old fella.